My first threesome: what should I expect and how to satisfy them

Do you know someone around you who is charming or charismatic? Someone kind? Or even someone who is fearless, who likes challenges? If so, contact their contacts, because this person could well be the missing piece of your threesome. When we hear about threesomes, it can seem rather abstract, even inaccessible. Some may even tell you that threesomes come from people's imagination, a fantasy. Others may even blame you for watching too much pornography. (He who says it is.) Okay, now, let me reassure you, the threesome exists. Of course, as with everything, preparation is necessary, whether you are looking to spice up your married life or your life as a single person hungry for sex. In fact, in order to have a memorable night with your two partners, there are a few things to consider first. In our article, we will therefore try to develop our game plan to achieve a threesome without a hitch. To do this, we will do this through three questions:

What to Expect in a Threesome and How to Prepare for It

 

The good feeling, a mutual feeling

Having a threesome is not the same as having sex! (Unless you like two people at once.) It's purely sexual, period. Otherwise, you have to understand that having sex with three people is a relatively difficult task, without preparation. So, the unexpected is not on the agenda. In any case, all participants must consent to take part in such collective sex, and enjoy it. For example, it would be annoying or ambiguous to end up in bed with your girlfriend and her ex. (Worthy of a porn movie, in other words,) In other words, you and your partner must be in the "mood" to do it. If one of you, including the person invited, does not feel comfortable, or if the circumstances are not ideal for "it" to happen, it would probably mean that you are simply not there yet. If we want it, no matter how exciting a threesome or a sex relationship with a stranger may be, using force in a romantic or even sexual relationship is never a good idea. It has to be reciprocal, or at least discussed. Sex is a democracy.

• Protect yourself!

To make it simple, please wear a condom during a ménage à trois. There are so many sexually transmitted diseases (STDs) that are due to simple negligence. Remember that the person you invite to your hot sexual romp is not necessarily "clean". If we want to avoid any risk of infection or unpleasant surprise, make sure that this person is, ideally, not a carrier of disease, and that you and your girlfriend wear condoms accordingly. If you are able to respect this simple rule of prevention, the ménage à trois will only be healthy, worry-free, and therefore more enjoyable, at least, for your couple and probably for the guest as well.

How to approach the subject with your partner, girlfriend or lover

Among couples who seek to integrate another person into their sexual activities, some want to add "spice", others do it rather to try to remedy their love problem. (Bad idea) In any case, a ménage à trois is a sexual game that your partner and you play together. This is why you must talk about it with her, and explain to her the reason for this purely sexual desire, above all, so that it becomes a real pleasure, for both of you. Obviously, everyone wants to have their share of the cake, or pleasure in our case. If you dream of making love to two women at the same time, or having one of them ride you while you lick the other's sex, then expect your partner to have some slightly naughty requests. (Slutty) She might well want to be penetrated by two people at the same time or dominate two men at the same time, in BDSM mode, for example. In other words, each of you must be satisfied or see that there is something to be gained. And if we started to judge each other's fantasies, it would mean that a ménage à trois is not an option, or even dangerous. (Guaranteed couple's quarrel) As you have understood since the beginning of the article, preparing a ménage à trois requires time and concession, it is not always spontaneous or passionate. (Reality: 1 and Porn: 0)

• The guest (YES) or a relative (NO)

We won't talk about how to approach a loved one for a threesome because it is highly discouraged, at least for most people. In my opinion, Christmas parties or any other family gathering would be more or less enviable with your best friend joining your ménage à trois (the image you would have of him would no longer be the annoying young boy, but the guy who fucked my wife in front of me...) when we take into account the "gossip" that this could create. This is why the third party is often an unknown guest, someone you have met in bars or in a place conducive to meetings. Be very careful about the stranger you choose. First of all, don't randomly pick one because he seems sane or reliable. Take the time to find one. So, if you really want to find someone in a bar, well, go there regularly. (Window shopping in bars) Besides, you could even make friends and establish a bond, not too close or intimate, with a person of your choice. When the time comes to talk to him about the ménage à trois, let him know in a way that it does not shock him. Ask him and expect to receive refusals from them. Eventually, through your work, you will certainly come across someone interested. Ideally, before the "M" day (M for ménage à trois), you could always ask him to undergo medical tests, at your expense, if necessary, or simply get to know him or her. (His or her profession, status, place of residence, etc.) If you are too embarrassed, make sure you have enough condoms before your big threesome sexual adventures. Even though it is an activity for your couple, you must still take into account the interests of the third person. Tell him or her the so-called conditions to be respected for the ménage à trois to work. Make sure he understands and respects them.

What sex toys to use in a threesome

Since there are many of you for your little sex game, the possibilities in terms of sex toys are endless. As a result, role-playing games are very fashionable in this kind of practice. First, you play characters, both your partner and the guest, and second, the disguises can hide their face and yours, which could help to forget and get through the awkwardness between you. Besides, bondage , gagball and other sex toys too. For example, when your partner is tied up and ready to be whipped, the guest can give you a blowjob, with a condom, of course. Otherwise, dildos and masturbators are also effective objects. For example, while the guest is pleasing your partner, the latter could put on a masturbator with adjustable intensity, which he could increase the speed of.

Otherwise, we repeat, protect yourself, so when you transition from one sex toy to another, take the time to change the condom put on the toy or simply change toys. Finally, do not hesitate to stop the game when you feel the need. The threesome is certainly an exciting, energizing and daring activity, but it could well change your marital status if you do not take the necessary precautions. If the three of you are willing to make concessions, communicate, establish rules and get along with the other parties involved, the threesome will take your sex life to another level.